"Ode to Orgasms"

One of my friends posted this to her facebook and anything with the word "orgasm" in the title is obviously worth a look.

"Ode to Orgasms"

This basically is what I try to tell any woman whenever they ask about sex and why I write about my experiences and why i'm so passionate (read: nympho) about all things sex.

No woman should ever be gipped out of an orgasm and for real...girls, when I have sex with someone, its cause I want to and I will make DAMN sure that I will be satisfied. Don't let your orgasm be reliant on what the man does to you. Take charge in the bedroom and you'll find that you will enjoy sex more, have more orgasms and ultimately want more sex.

Peace and Love Y'all

-PS: Girls let me know what is your fave position that gets you off best? (comments or twitter)

Me: I like getting it from behind and I like being on top (especially if he is sitting up) forrrr sure.

THANKS THANKS

I was made aware that mysexlifewithlola (a fellow sexual themed blogger) made reference to my site.

I just want to say thanks and if you like what I write, you can check out their site as well as their suggestions of other related sites. Its a really good list and it will definitely warm you up during these cold winter months.

Again thanks 

=)

Never NOT been single.

One of my boys birthdays was this weekend, he threw a big party and so I though I would bring along the new BF as a "coming out/check out my NON singleness. It was a hit, people I didn't even know were telling us that we looked good together, all the boys were nice to him and inclusive.

I had no doubt that he would be good with all of the them but it was DEFINITELY weird being with all my boys and having a BF there too.

Its been 5-6 years that this group of friends have been going strong and being 1 of 2 girls that are not a girlfriend of one of the boys in the group of like 10, its odd to be bringing a new dude into the mix.

The boys have always said to us two (the girls of the group) - jokingly - that no matter what we can't bring our bfs around. That has never really been a problem cause it's not like im gonna bring around fuck buddies and I was always under the impression that I probably was never going to settle down - so no problemo there.

Alas, things don't always turn out like they are planned and here I am bringing a dude into our nice little group.
PLUSS...it's not like the boys havn't brought their girlfriends around and made us (me and the other chick) play nice with these "girlfriends" that we didn't know if they would last or not.

PS. a little about the BF.

He
- reallly likes sex. Like alot alot - perfect for my insatiableness.
- really likes my tittttays
- enjoys my BJs.
- kisses me on the forehead
 -- thus I do like everything about him

HOWEVER
being that I have had more experience than the regular old joe when it comes to the bedroom...there are somethings that I would slowly like to introduce to him aka
- a little bit of roughness (read...a LOT more roughness)
- maybe pull my hair sometimes
- maybe spit on your cock a bit (cause you want it so bad that you don't want to wait)
- give me some bruises (so i can be reminded of where you were on me the next day - aka on my tit, ass, stomach, inner thigh, etc)
- smack my ass a bit
- throw me down on the bed and hold me there, choke me a bit
etc.
(i know - all sex related, simply because I like everything else about it, except for how TOO nice he is in bed)

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