#12 - One Night Stands and Walks of Shame

At frosh week at my university, all the leaders stay together in a hotel downtown near campus.
Naturally we would all walk back to our hotels at the end of the night of partying.

Being that we are in Toronto, frosh parties would be happening all in the clubbing district; me and a couple friends were on our way back to the hotel when we stopped for some food.

This is where I met "random"; I just don't even remember what he may have said or what not but I believe i remember him grabbing onto me and kissing and then we were in a cab and I was telling my friends to go on without me.

Actually now that I'm trying to relive the night, I think the only reason I went with him is because he said he lived close to where we were and I knew I had to be back to my hotel in the morning to get ready for the next days frosh activities.

He wasn't lieing, he lived in some condo that was about a 5 min drive from where I was staying. THANK GOD!

Obviously had some good sex, a couple times - slept in a really nice luxiourius bed - interesting for a man who was probably only in his mid 20s. - had some nice EARLY as fuck morning sex. I didn't notice at the time but it was early.
It also happened to be a week day and thus he had to go to work in the morning.

So here I am, in a black strapless quite short dress with red 4" heels walking out of this nice condo building at like 7:30 am. It wasn't till I got in the elevator did I notice that my phone was dead, I was much too proud to go back or ask anyone to call me a cab.

Apparently at 730 am on a weekday EVERYONE is using cabs. I had to walk in this small dress and red heels for about 5-10 min before I could find a free cab to finally get back to my hotel.

Safe, with a story to tell, and my roommates were none the wiser. Showered and led those froshies around the rest of the day like the innocent good role model that I am ;)

PS. I have no IDEA what this guys name was and I didn't think to ask in the morning; nor did I get his number and I think it was best that way.

Public Bathroom Stalls #17

He was the first guy (#1) I had banged in a foreign country. So I take it as like a restart, he broke my "foreign country" cherry. In case you don't believe I was reborn into a virgin as soon as I got into this foreign country...then he would just be #17.

The first time I ever went out in Hong Kong was with a chick I had just met, but soon grew to LA-OVE.

We drank a shit load that night, it was open bar, of course, because most places are at least open bar for chicks.  The club/bar was on one floor of the building, right above us was a hookah bar.

Me and the bff obviously ended up going up to the hookah bar with a couple of guys that we recognized from our group of people who were going out together. I knew my chica was interested in the one dude and I mean I didn't think there was anything wrong with the other one - PLUS we were both DEF wasted and were now smoking shisha.

It's a little hazy on how the night progressed, but the four of us ended up in either the girls or boys washroom (don't remember), paired off we were each in separate stalls. All I was willing to do at the moment was a BJ, because I didn't want to seem like a slut so early on, and plus my chica was next door - granted I knew nothing about her, but I figured she would be maybe giving a handie (I couldn't hear anything coming from their stall).

Eventually, however, we sexed up that public washroom with the two others in the next stall.

It wasn't until a few weeks later or a month that I found out that my new bff was ALSO sexing next door to me and thus ... the definition of true bonding ;)

oh and best part...

Asphyxiation #29 - again

He was really nice guy, just into some weird shit that I had never experienced.

Whenever we hung out, we were always trying to one up each other by finding an even more controversial, or banned, or just seriously fucked up movie that we could watch.
Most of the movies were all movies that were banned at some point in time from some country somewhere in the world. Normally I'm not a fan of scary movies, luckily all these movies were more like action or whatnot but with some sick and twisted scenes. (ie: Ichi the Killer - this one specifically I never was able to fully watch)

That night he took some (in his words) "artful" nudie pics; I was so against, in case they ever surface on the  internets...so I covered my face as best as I could and took more pics. Also did some filming that night. It's always interesting and odd watching yourself in the act or looking at pics.

Before sex that night however he asked me "how do you feel about choking?" wooo...I was like "ahhhh...never did it, would be kinda scared"So he goes on and tells me that he won't do it to me, but if I wanted, I could do it on him and we'll see how it goes.

I'm open minded, sooo when he asked me to do it, I did it a couple times but probably lightly mainly because I was afraid to choke him to hard. The third time though I did well, or so he said. He may have tried it once on me, but I didn't get it soo he stopped.

Not gonna lie...sometimes I would like to try it again. PLUS i just Wikipedia'd it to see what the hype was or why people like it. This is a quote from there that sparked my intrigue again: "When the brain is deprived of oxygen, it induces a lucid, semi-hallucinogenic state called hypoxia. Combined with orgasm, the rush is said to be no less powerful than cocaine, and highly addictive" 


In conclusion, #29 pushed my limits, opened me up to new possibilities and of course introduced me to more taboo sex practices along with teaching me about cuddling.
Before these encounters, I was SUPER against cuddling because it was almost too intimate and could cause me to think there is more between me and this random than just sex.
But he was adamant on the cuddling, the first night we were together I rolled over onto my side of the bed...but he just rolled over ontop of me and gave me no choice but to cuddle and then would ask that I cuddle him as well.

For a tall ass man (prob 6'2"), compared to my 5'1" self I was big spoon alot of the time - such a baby.

I learned so much with this kid...thats why he warranted 3 posts.
=)