So lately, i've been off my game... the whole sex thing was just not that exciting and i didn't really feel like sleeping with anyone.
There was a point last week that even my masterbation was off, like i couldn't even arouse myself enough to even cum like normal...I felt really weird about that and was really worried for a second that I lost my ability to orgasm!!
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And then I realized I was delusional and had sex with various various people.
---- I'll update on that later, right now I wanna talk about what just happened last night.
So there is this dude that I have wanted for a time, thing is he friends with my ex...buttt any who we ended up in the same bar, drinking and then in the same bed.
Last night however there was mucho less drinking and it was planned outing with the intent to sex him good afterwards.
1. I came, finally, many times, and my faith was restored.
2. However he said something really odd but I think true because of misconceptions
"I've never had a girl want to be on top, they always just want to be fucked"..he went on to say its so refreshing and a turn on that I was on top and liked it and knew what I wanted.
This made me happy and sad at the same time. Happy = because I love when a guy appreciates a woman who knows what she wants and is willing to lay back and take it. Sad = because a. he said "women always want to be fucked" as if when your not on top, you are the one getting fucked and b. some women do get off better laying on their backs but also c. I do feel that a lot of women think that being on their back is the only/best position because its the most common which makes me EVEN more sad/happy because I made this blog to empower more women to go out there and take the reins and fuck people and to get them on their backs and get what you want instead of just taking it.
Moral of the Story:
Women - go be more aggressive in the bedroom, get up there and take the reins (seriously girl on top for me is the best position - guarantee cum, FOR SURE)
Men - lay on your back every once in a while and let girls FUCK you, help women who are timid or whatever to get up there and experience the full power of your dick (i swear it reaches more places with girl on top)
