"Girls always want to be fucked"

So lately, i've been off my game... the whole sex thing was just not that exciting and i didn't really feel like sleeping with anyone.

There was a point last week that even my masterbation was off, like i couldn't even arouse myself enough to even cum like normal...I felt really weird about that and was really worried for a second that I lost my ability to orgasm!!


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And then I realized I was delusional and had sex with various various people.

---- I'll update on that later, right now I wanna talk about what just happened last night.

So there is this dude that I have wanted for a time, thing is he friends with my ex...buttt any who we ended up in the same bar, drinking and then in the same bed.

Last night however there was mucho less drinking and it was planned outing with the intent to sex him good afterwards.

1. I came, finally, many times, and my faith was restored.
2. However he said something really odd but I think true because of misconceptions

"I've never had a girl want to be on top, they always just want to be fucked"..he went on to say its so refreshing and a turn on that I was on top and liked it and knew what I wanted.

This made me happy and sad at the same time. Happy = because I love when a guy appreciates a woman who knows what she wants and is willing to lay back and take it. Sad = because a. he said "women always want to be fucked" as if when your not on top,  you are the one getting fucked and b. some women do get off better laying on their backs but also c. I do feel that a lot of women think that being on their back is the only/best position because its the most common which makes me EVEN more sad/happy because I made this blog to empower more women to go out there and take the reins and fuck people and to get them on their backs and get what you want instead of just taking it.

Moral of the Story:
Women - go be more aggressive in the bedroom, get up there and take the reins (seriously girl on top for me is the best position - guarantee cum, FOR SURE)
Men - lay on your back every once in a while and let girls FUCK you, help women who are timid or whatever to get up there and experience the full power of your dick (i swear it reaches more places with girl on top)

NEW FUCK BUDDY NEEDED!!

Having a good fuck buddy is essential

The relationship is a very unique one... the way I like mine to play out is this:

- we are friends - we prob don't hang out with the same people all the time or ever, but we can each hang out with each others friends no prob
- we both know that this is just what it is...and its NOT and never will become a relationship
- sex is good and we don't have to have dinner first or watch a tv show or movie  (again we know what   this is)
- they have their own place or a car that way sex can happen easier (ill go back to car sex if i have to)
- sleeping over is optional and isn't awkward cause who gives a fuck....we friends and we fuck
- never expect to be invited out to events by one another...if they happen to be there great, if not who cares...ITS NOT A RELATIONSHIP (at the end of the night if im not fucking someone...then we can text each other - its mutually beneficial)

- the fuck buddy has to be someone that you think is hot or that you think is great in bed but there is something between the two of you that you just KNOW you would never work out together - but we young and horny soo lets fuck who we want, when we want, as often as we want.

and to end that - I need one..I don't even remember how to go about finding one, its hard to find the perfect one but I HAVE to, soon.

MY LOINS DON'T WANT TO WAIT ANY LONGER.
 -- however I think I now have a candidate in mind...

Asian Gang-STAH

He was legit, an asian gangster in asia. Met (I use the term "met" loosely - more like I spotted him) him in Hong Kong (hence why he is legit).

Me and my friends would always go to this one club on tuesday - it was free cover for ladies and open bar all night...soo why the fuck not. Aside from us expat folks there, there always seemed to be an gangster asian population on tuesdays too.

This particular night, I felt like changing things up, time for a challenge and just an excuse to be ridiculous. I had declared that tonite, I would infiltrate the asian gangsters (cause they never even noticed or talked to the expat peeps) and my goal was to dance and even maybe take one home (if I found a hottie one, or ya know...open bar always helps my options).

Within no time, I was dancing with the whole group of them, just around and around, there was one who was more into tieing the crazy white chick down soooo of course I hopped into a cab with him.

This guy lived like a journey away! (which now i knew meant i HAD to sleep over ) we get there...he owns a house, dogs, car, garage...everything - if you don't know people in Hong Kong don't just own houses...everyone lives in apartments or condos. So I knew instantly that this guy didn't just dress ghetto gangster....he was one!

For a gangster he was pretty soft...I was expecting some ruff shit - NOPE

he made us both go for a shower together (sooo awkward..."i don't know you man!") and he wanted to wash my body (that shit is just uncomfortable - I DON'T KNOW YOU); so i hopped quick out of there   and made my way to the bedroom to do what I know I would enjoy! -- SEX AND MORE SEX

Now that i knew he was soft, I knew I could tell him what to do and he would obey everything - we had sex. There is really nothing to say about the sex, he was like most HK locals and not so well endowed but I played nice like always and then I was like SLEEP TIME!

But no...he talked for like 2 hours about this chick he was gonna marry and then she left him and then started talking about his businesses and MAN I just wanted to up and leave, he was such a sad man for being like almost 30 and supposedly a friggen gangstah.

OH PS ..did i mention for all swagged out he looked with his clothes on, once they were off....he SERIOUSLY  had the body of a maybe 14 yr old boy.

I wanted to be up and going so fast out of this in the morning - In the morning he showed me all this stock of clothing cause he owned a bunch of stores in downtown and was offering me all these things FO FREE. I knew i couldn't take any just because i would feel obliged to at least give him another chance when all i wanted was to not talk nor see his face again!

That didn't happen till like the afternoon - he took me for breakfast (i wanted to puke) and then he rode the transit with me ALL the way back to my area (like DUDE, WTF WE JUST HAD SEX)

ugh...after that, I was over HK locals, onto the next foreign beasts to check off

That Time I Initiated a Threesome...

This started out like any other threesome would....at a bar


The three people involved were myself, one of my girlfriends, and one of my guy friends.

Lets call my girlfriend Ariel and the guy Aladdin for sake of ease.
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Ariel recently got a job out of province in a place much less populated than where were currently lived, and she was coming back home to visit for the week. I was allotted the friday night for getting to spend time with her and she had told me specifically "I want to GET LAID tonight  its my only night free and back in civilization where there is good pickings and I really don't care who it is, but its been forever and I NEED it"

Being the great friend that I am, I said HELL YEA, eassssssyyy. So naturally we invite all our friends to the bar for a reunion, plus I know that she and one of the them were fuck buddies before and thus would be down, and if not, ITS A BAR!

At the bar, drinking, everyones arrived and it was great, except fuck buddy can't come, sooo now its hunting season and most of our friends have work in the morn so people are slowly just leaving! LAAAMMEEEE!

Aladdin goes to us "why don't we just go back to mine and drink so that we don't have to call it a night to fast"; now i know that Aladdin ALWAYS has tons of alcohol at his place and is always generous, so i'm down buttt that lowers our pickings for Ariel down to one and i don't know if shes down. Lo and behold, she says she is down for going to his place cause then we can continue drinking and the whole night isn't a disaster.

So like any good threesome story, it never started out being planned as a threesome.

We drove to his place in my car, get there, open a bottle of champagne....finish it, open another and I realize "OK guys, i can't drink anymore or else it DEFINITELY won't be safe for me to drive us (me and ariel) back home (to my place)." Aladdin says "well i'll pay for DADS, so KEEP DRINKING" (which is a taxi company that comes with two people and one drives you home and the other drives your car home behind you - smart right? i know!)

Well you don't have to twist my arm to get me to drink free booze AND pay for my cab home.
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I don't remember finishing that last drink...not a single clue...

HOLAY SHIITTEE

So it's been a hot minute since i've updated.

Quick run through:
got a bf, that was great, but just wasnt meant to be and was half cheating on him with another dude who i had my eye on for a LOOONGG time.

broke up with old bf and then started dating new bf and we've been together for about 9 months.
ROUND OF APPLAUSE - please and thanks (oh and ive been faithful and not done anything that a gf shouldn't be doing)

i think the having a bf thing is hindering my talking about sex...seeing as they (both of them -new and old) slightly take offence if im "thinking" about other guys.

Anywho, I've got some time, I miss this and all the fun it brings and sharing my stories. SOOOOO here is some more.

OH anddd for the past little while or so I have been telling my friends and whoever else that my number was "i thought" the low 30s....MANNNN was I wrong.

TRY 40
woah.

2012

It's 2012 bitcheeeesss!

New year usually means new resolutions, new loves, new experiences, a chance to start over with a clean slate.

I drink to all of you here reading about my sexperiences, and to the hope that you are all getting yourselves laid, having amazing mind blowing sex always, to falling in love, to finding more about yourself than ever before and to another year filled with surprises.

Boom! That was about as deep as I could get for all of you. I hope you appreciated and take that all to heart, I only mean well.

Now also don't hate just cause i havn't posted in a while. It was exam time, then holidays, and then the whole thing about having a boyfriend who in my opinion is no where close to my number of experiences and also has no idea about this and thus its hard to think about past sex objects and never tell him about what I do on the interwebs.
BUT FUCK IT....I will continue documenting everything until I have nothing left to say or for some reason can't have SEX anymore (the HORROR!)

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

...rock my world...

I will masturbate tonight to the hope that I will sex you again one day...

#3 - the BEST fuck ever

As promised ...
Met him through my workplace...came along and wowed me with his magic tricks - the magic tricks GOT me! I wanted him...bad!

I don't recall the specifics of how it started; but we ended up having sex once...unfortunately.

There was just something about the way he talked, dressed and was that made me SO fucking hot for this kid. Finally, it was a day I was coming home from uni and decided that I would meet at his place before we both started work at 5.

Naturally we started off with a BJ - it was uncircumcised; the words that came out of my mouth when I saw it were, and I kid you not "WOAH, wow, i've never seen one, how? what do I do? like do I have to do something else? what should i do?" hes like "what do you mean? are you a virgin? just stick in your mouth its that same thing..jeez".

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1. I have always said that sex cures stuffy noses and I have definately taken advantage of that
2. thank god about the cholesterol - I think im prone to bad cholesterol!
3. longer lifespan

BUT always remember that too much sex is not that good either - for girls there are all those infections that can afflict one if they are getting pounded way to regularly and arn't "moist" enough...
also there is the risk of being exposed to STIs so please please please go at least once a year for STI checkups as well as checking your chances of cancer (both boys and girls)

All in all, I love sex, it will always be a big part of my life and therefore we (me) needs to continue to be careful and safe =D

HK Sevens - #23

Since HK Sevens happened not too long ago, I thought this would be a nice story..

If you don't know, this is a rugby competition that brings teams from all over the world

to compete continuously for one weekend (fri,sat,sun) from 9-9 each day. For everyone who goes, its a party, getting dressed up in stupid outfits, drinking massive amounts of booze and not really watching the games...
Every night of the sevens is a party night for the people watching, but the players are still trying to win something (I think) - however, sunday the games are finished and some team won some competition (didn't really care, hot boys in short shorts and shirts that show off all muscles - need I say more), thus sunday means all the players on all these national teams are ALSO going out partying and since there is only really two major places these guys are going (wan chai or LKF). We (me and all me friends) decided to bet on wan chai.

After drinking and chatting, meeting some of an african team (I think they may have won that year, the boys were excited to meet them), we decided to start heading home

this is the INTERESTING part! ran into some of the Argentinean team - you could tell who played for what team cause they were all in their country jerseys and were all ripped to SHREDS.

TERRY RICHARDSON

not only are his pictures of insanely beautiful people but I also had a great sex dream about him not too long ago

WE SHOULD FUCK

i think i came a little..

There are, at this moment, only three guys that I know that I would commit to and never stray..

Two of them are out of reach, live in different countries, so beautiful and smart and passionate.
 - one of these i havn't even slept with but he is so mind stimulating and both are in university which is always a good sign, both like travelling (super plus) ahhh..

The third is close by and been intimate for a long time, 2 years.

With all of them, i'm just to pussy to say anything, to ask, to just know if they would commit.
I almost would rather have them around as friends or fuck buddies than to risk finding out that they don't ever want to commit.

so pathetic...

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oh but the reason i wrote this post was cause I was creeping the facebook and saw a pic of one and my heart did a little flutter, I maybe (meaning "I did") got a little wet. aiiiyaa


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ps promise the next post will be about a time I had meaningless wonderful sex with a stranger that is just a number and story in my "black book"
;)

I think i've earned the right to stereotype.

I have most definitely mastered the ancient arts and gained the:
White belt
Yellow belt
Brown belt
And really only reached like "level 1" black belt

If y'all get what I be saying.

Based completely on my own sexual experiences, these are my stereotypes so far

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More about 30

This one could have been such a great milestone

Here I was giving another brown guy a chance to prove his worth....
Never fucking happening again -
It was fucking terrible I think he was too eager ughh

Such a let down, normally I'm not one to judge on size cause there is always some way to work around it, but no not this time.

Erggghh what a let down