THANKS THANKS

I was made aware that mysexlifewithlola (a fellow sexual themed blogger) made reference to my site.

I just want to say thanks and if you like what I write, you can check out their site as well as their suggestions of other related sites. Its a really good list and it will definitely warm you up during these cold winter months.

Again thanks 

=)

Never NOT been single.

One of my boys birthdays was this weekend, he threw a big party and so I though I would bring along the new BF as a "coming out/check out my NON singleness. It was a hit, people I didn't even know were telling us that we looked good together, all the boys were nice to him and inclusive.

I had no doubt that he would be good with all of the them but it was DEFINITELY weird being with all my boys and having a BF there too.

Its been 5-6 years that this group of friends have been going strong and being 1 of 2 girls that are not a girlfriend of one of the boys in the group of like 10, its odd to be bringing a new dude into the mix.

The boys have always said to us two (the girls of the group) - jokingly - that no matter what we can't bring our bfs around. That has never really been a problem cause it's not like im gonna bring around fuck buddies and I was always under the impression that I probably was never going to settle down - so no problemo there.

Alas, things don't always turn out like they are planned and here I am bringing a dude into our nice little group.
PLUSS...it's not like the boys havn't brought their girlfriends around and made us (me and the other chick) play nice with these "girlfriends" that we didn't know if they would last or not.

PS. a little about the BF.

He
- reallly likes sex. Like alot alot - perfect for my insatiableness.
- really likes my tittttays
- enjoys my BJs.
- kisses me on the forehead
 -- thus I do like everything about him

HOWEVER
being that I have had more experience than the regular old joe when it comes to the bedroom...there are somethings that I would slowly like to introduce to him aka
- a little bit of roughness (read...a LOT more roughness)
- maybe pull my hair sometimes
- maybe spit on your cock a bit (cause you want it so bad that you don't want to wait)
- give me some bruises (so i can be reminded of where you were on me the next day - aka on my tit, ass, stomach, inner thigh, etc)
- smack my ass a bit
- throw me down on the bed and hold me there, choke me a bit
etc.
(i know - all sex related, simply because I like everything else about it, except for how TOO nice he is in bed)

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#5 - everybody gets a taste

I probably met him in grade 10, at the time he was one of my best friends boyfriends and one of my best guy friends. We always had some sexual tension going on between us but hey she was my best friend and I was still innocent. At some point in high school, they broke up and we tried the dating thing, lasted all of 5 hours in which time he took my first French kiss (which was slobbery and horrible, almost like he was just licking me - ugh).

I couldn't bare having one of my bffs mad at me so that stopped and they started dating again. In high school, I had 2 best friends, we were like a trio - actually our nickname was "teen girl squad" - later in our school career, the two girls started not getting along and were fighting with me in the middle trying to keep the peace. In the end I moved away and uni came so I just forgot to care about their drama; although I kept in touch with them separately.

During first year uni, found out that #5 and his long time gf weren't together anymore, meanwhile found out from my other BFF that she had started fucking him. This is when I learned that he was super good, and they were just fucking, and that he still had a thing for me and wanted to have sex with me at least once. I was not about to deny that opportunity especially since I was no more BFFs with his ex long time gf and the other girl had blatantly gave me permission and pretty much set up when we were gonna "hang out".

He was my number 5, obviously I was still noob at all things sex. Everything was exciting, my sex drive was an all time high, I could have sex like 8 times and "she" would still want to go on for more. I almost want to say it was comparable to #3. He made me cum 3 times, hard cumming! This was one of the first times I squirted, he used his fingers to get it out of me and all of a sudden he was like WOAHH you just shot out all on my arm!
I was in denial "what, no, no way, really?, where?, show me" And he showed me, it wasn't what it is now but he opened my eyes to the possibility and I have never since then cum the way he made me. In case ya'll didn't know already I'm totally penetration oriented, like I love my clit ...but seriously get in there where the good shit is!! So while he was inside me going at it (which was also good, he was probably the second biggest i've encountered) when I was getting close to cumming he would pull out and finish it with his fingers and it was like a black out, I just couldn't control myself!

After every time I would have to sit there curled in a ball for the next 30 seconds and become aware of what my legs and arms feel like again.

The female orgasm is a great, great thing.

OH SHOOT!

So even though i came hardcore, it was not all that great.

He went down on me at some point during this; the worst! - i don't know if he had his eyes closed or he just didn't know what a clit looks like or where it's located but he was super excited and gung ho to be down there and was really adamant that he liked eating girls out...too bad he SUCKED at it.
Lucky for him, i'm not super into that so i just pushed his head away and was like just "get 'er done" and the fact that his dick was nice and was skilled with his fingers.

Mass Text

In case you don't follow me on twitter...

the last person in the world you would think would find herself with a boy loyally....aka ME - now is dating a most beautiful and sweet sweet man.

As it all was setting in, I realized that now i have to send a MASS text out to 

1. my loyal long time fuck buddy

2. this other dude who had a nice dick and could make me squirt like no tomorrow (who i started hanging out with again to benefit from that d.)

3. and my boy who I told that I would be down for a threesome with his chick

...when i step back and look at this, i just shake my head, does anyone else have to do this when they also go serious?

My goal of the evening is to do this cause i like my boo and im ready for this steadiness.

Be Proud Y'all

=)

ps. don't think the blog is done....i still have more stories left to tell. ;)

Funny Cartoons.

While perusing the internet for research and/or just basic creeping through peoples facebook/tumblr/twitter...etc

These are couple of pics/graphs that i found that are GREAT.

This one was particularly funny simply because it actually happened...I mean it was the other way around and he was asking me. But yea it happened and my response was - maybe, not right away but eventually.

just a basic graph of different things that people perhaps may say in bed

and then this last one has nothing to do with sex but so so good.

Dry Spell

Lately I've gotten a new job, its super demanding but so good good!

but now consequently I am super busy; two jobs, school and studying is leaving a very minimal amount of social life time in my weeks.

SO SAD

aside from that, its been two weeks since my last romp in the sack and its killing me. 

I just want some mind shattering sex, orgasm squirting, non commital sex.

The last couple months I'm pretty sure i've only been with my usual FB (fuck buddy), and being that its been now 2 years - i'm getting bored.

Seriously the same sex all the time, i know exactly what he wants, where he wants it, how he wants it and its all so vanilla, i'm just so disinterested. - Like there is nothing exciting about it, and hes not so much on the trying new things once he found something that works.

I need new person sex, the excitement of a new person and discovery is so enticing and makes me wet with excitemnent thinking about the next person that i will pounce on. - the fantasies have gotten pretty intense; being that i live on a street with many eligible men walking around going to the many bars, one night last week i had to physically stop myself from just going outside and finding the first person and taking them into my house.

I NEEEEEDDDD !!

Side Note: how do people stay in relationships? I don't even spend much time with the FB and now im bored... I'm failing hardcore, scared to even think what i would be like in a relationship!!

How do you stay interested in sex with the same person day in and day out? Help a sista out...comments?

HPV - WTF?!

This is more of a serious informative post - so prepare yourselves!

A few months ago, I read an article that was talking about how the HPV virus can now be causing throat cancer.

At that time, it was still not proven and was more speculation however i was scared shitless.

I mean first I had to watch out for vagina cancer and nowwww I have to give BJs with condoms on.

These disease are really taking all the fun out of sex.

As I sit in this coffee shop, the tv playing the news just informed that now "HPV positive tumors are the leading cause of throat cancer"

Guys, honestly about 8 months ago, during my routine pap test, we found that I had HPV up in thurr. I was terrified, i didn't want cancer, i didn't know what this meant.

I went to a specialist and we had to monitor it, apparently most of the time it clears up on its own and no need to worry. I still cried like all the time for a full week.

In case you are all worried about me, the doc tells me that its all clear now and i'm fine.

Back to HPV in the world. HPV is soon to bypass tobacco as the number one reason for oral cancer!

So FOR REAL....please; all men and women go get PAP tests regularly, practice safer sex.

Check out this website for some chilling facts and/or you can always plainly google "HPV"

HPV and Oral Cancers