So officially single lady again. We had a good run, was in a legit relationship for about a year or so....well we were at least sleeping together for a year.
I'm not broken up about it, I knew it was coming and also knew that I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with him.
So to keep this from getting ANY sappier... my last notes on relationships:
This was my longest and most legit relationship i've ever been in and it was the learning experience of a lifetime.
Both being single and being in a relationship have their pros and cons - I learned what it really meant to be cared about and thought about on a constant basis, someone always wondering what you thought or what you were doing that wasn't just your friend. That is nice, and comforting; not something i've ever been used to and was most likely always afraid of.
So thanks to him! for teaching me about all the good things of relationships and how valuable and lovely they are.
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On the other hand there is all the freedom to do whomever and whatever you want to do when single and no one to answer to. There is the doing whatever your heart desires always and whenever that is great about single. There is the extra time that you can spend learning about yourself and really caring about and going crazy over yourself. It's really a time that you can sit back and reflect and be selfish until you find that person that will complement what you really are and want out of life.
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AKA whether your single or taken, enjoy it and cherish it =)
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