This is a continuation of pukie ...
After our one night together, we began texting pretty often. It was odd, because of course after a one night stand I seriously don't expect any more calling/texting/seeing of the person ever again.
Alas he was hot and I was down and I was not enjoying this bed/sleepover sex thing. So we ended up meeting up for a "date" we went to a movie which was really good and we walked around a bit - when leaving I was like alright "bye" and was gonna leave and he stopped me and leaned way over (soo much taller than me) and kissed me - I was SMITTEN.
A few hours later he texts and i quote "...slumber party?"
me : "i love a good slumber party"
and then here is the text that i thought was really quite gentlemanly - getting it out there right away:
"I should tell you though first: just that my intentions are sort of simple. I mean, I'm not loking for a relationship or anything but playfulness and good friendliness are ok in my book. how do you feel about that?"
I thought that was quite nice and quite frankly at the time, perfect..school had just started, i was working two jobs, as well as commuting to and from school; I don't have time to be nice and lovey and datey with boys.
When I told him that, he said
"well thats good :). honestly, the only thing worse than not having someone to cuddle with is hurting them. So I would rather be clear right from the beginning"
And thus starting our few sexcapades together.
Also he taught me the merits of cuddling - I have been converted, cuddle me all the time please and thanks!
To get more of the mushy stuff out of the way - we did do more than sex, I would come over and hang out with the buds and play board games, watch movies, etc. OH and i went to go see his band play; really good music!!
Now for the gooey, juicy parts ...